The Self-Identity Challenge for Boys

What this CHALLENGE is about: This challenge is designed for boys ready to discover who they are and what type of man they want to become. Through guided self-reflection, goal-setting, and real-world practice, participants will explore their values, strengths, and vision for their future selves. This isn't about fitting into someone else's definition of masculinity - it's about defining your own authentic path to becoming a confident, purposeful young man. The Self-Identity Challenge for Boys Week 1: Know Yourself Complete a personal strengths assessment - identify 3 things you're naturally good at Write down 5 men you admire (family, historical figures, fictional characters) and what qualities make them admirable Daily reflection: "What felt most 'like me' today?" Week 2: Values & Vision Create your personal "man code" - 5 values that will guide your decisions Write a letter to your future 25-year-old self describing the man you want to become Practice making one decision each day based on your values, not peer pressure Week 3: Character in Action Choose one way to serve others this week (help family, volunteer, support a friend) Practice standing up for something you believe in (respectfully but firmly) Learn one new skill that builds confidence (cooking, fixing something, learning an instrument) Week 4: Your Authentic Path Create a personal mission statement: "I am becoming a man who..." Share your vision with a trusted adult and ask for their support Set 3 goals for the next 6 months that align with the man you're becoming This challenge helps boys move from "Who am I supposed to be?" to "Who do I choose to become?" - building authentic confidence and purpose.